Released on September 1, 2021

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[Chorus: Spose, Amy Allen, & Both]

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy, it's okay if you cry

Don't let them keep you bottled inside

Flowers grow in the rain

Hey, big guy


[Verse 1: Spose]

Hey, big guy

You be anything you wanna be and I won't ask

Life's a tragedy or comedy and I won't laugh

Our first son, you're anomaly, I'm your dad

In this economy, I'll keep you out of poverty

Mom and me are fightin', that's an earthquake

Sorry you're in therapy in first grade

But I'll make up for it, get you Discman for your birthday

See you every other weekend now, but not the workdays

Life is war and peace, you gotta be Tolstoy

All you need is you, you gotta make your own joy

Lose your livin', tryna get in, fit in with homeboys

Bought you that guitar, now you gon' make your own noise

You could gеt lost followin' the brain in your pants

You'll be the cloud that could rain on all of your plans

But you'rе the game boy 'cause you've got the game in your hands

And even when I'm gone, I'ma yell your name in the stands, lil' man


[Bridge: Spose]

I know you got some holes inside, I hope that you could fill 'em on your own, man

I bought you that computer, you could be another user or a grown man

Just don't be a victim, here, remember what you're coached

Uh, life will chew you up and spit you out before you know

I'm just tryna glue together everything I broke

[Chorus: Spose, Amy Allen, & Both]

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy, it's okay if you cry

Don't let them keep you bottled inside

Flowers grow in the rain

Hey, big guy


[Verse 3: Spose]

Hey, big guy

Stop growin', would you? Damn, you really grew up fast

I'm headin' out on tour again to get a big ol' bag

So be nice to your sisters and when I get back

We'll go explorin' and we'll watch The Mandalorian

I miss you, spent the whole tour worryin'

Sent him pics, see? Maine look just like Oregon

Go help mom pick up all the floors again

And I'm just glad your parents broke the cycle from my origin

Life's throwin' lemons at adults in a curveball

Gotta take the blame for it, man, when it's your fault

Dudes play the victim, shit, I did it, ask your mom

But don't lie to be cool 'cause it's cooler to be you

You're a pure chance, a fresh start and a person

If you're hurt, man, talk to me, let's work, man

World War blues for dudes since the beginnin'

We're all self-conscious, I'm not the first to admit it


[Bridge: Spose]

Dudes have been the problem, but I know that we can solve it, can we hold hands?

Don't try to please everyone or be anyone else, just be your own man

They gave me instructions, but I had to make 'em new

Me and mom have got your back, it's really up to you

But if it makes you happy, you know what you need to do

[Chorus: Spose, Amy Allen, & Both]

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy, it's okay if you cry

Don't let them keep you bottled inside

Flowers grow in the rain

Hey, big guy


[Post-Chorus: Amy Allen]

It's okay if you cry

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy


[Instrumental Break]


[Outro: Amy Allen]

Hey, big guy

It's okay if you cry

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy

Hey, big guy