Learning My Limits

By Lavender Decline

On two

Released on July 11, 2025

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[Verse 1]

Radio silence, you never give the time of day

I can't confide in you, it's a heady price I pay

Kill me with the memory, barely even know my name

You're not making sense to me, come back when you want to change

I can't bear this cross every day of my sad life

And when I cross the bridge over to the great divine

I'll remember you fondly, even with the baggage there

My words have fallen on deaf ears, even though I always cared


[Chorus]

Guide me through all of the vines that got tangled up

I feel like we can still shine without making love

Learning my limits, l'll keep my restraint from us

Summertime hit me so hard, I felt my color rust

I'm sorry for the way I was, I didn't know what to do

When I find my drive, oftentimes I hit a wall or two

When I get back home, I can't promise that l'll speak to you

I just hope you know that I'm fine, and I will get there soon


[Verse 2]

Times it took to circle back to what it was before I lacked

The confidence to tell you things that deeply scar my very being

I say this all to say I'm lost again, and it's a pricey cost

To turn around and act the way they want me to, but it's not me

They see outright, the real me doesn't show upfront, I know you love it

In a while, I'll be okay, but that day will not come today

Tomorrow isn't promised, so I'll do the things I always wanted

Sit, recite a lonely sonnet, then repeat it all tomorrow

Problems that aren't forward facing plague me 'til my dying day

And it's a curse that l've been breathing since that cold December evening

In 2005, that night that I had made my grand arrival

Everyone was happy, smiling, 19 years went by, I'm writhing

Met up with my former self to tell him that I wish him well

And it won't be this way forever, but it gets worse before better

I'm entangled in a loop that I can't break unless I do

My very best to kill these demons, I'm just grateful I'm still breathing


[Outro]

(So I'll throw up my arms)

(Keep my distance from you)

('Cause that's where the pain starts)

(So what else can I do?)