Well, the most important relationship in my life is my relationship with my wife

But it's funny because it's also the most difficult relationship in my life

You know, waking up next to a person every day

Having to deal with each other's flaws and uh personality and attitude

Uh it can be difficult

Um but I also see it as the most sanctified relationship in my life

So when I think of the the pains and the difficulties that come along with marriage

I'm often reminded of how the lord is particularly using marriage to build character in me

So it's amazing that god can take something that

That's so great but it's also so painful and difficult and use it for my growth

And I have to say that marriage has definitely done a lot to build character in me just as a man

And that's a growing pain