The Real Her

By Drake

On Take Care

Released on November 15, 2011

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[Verse 1: Drake]

People around you should really have nothing to say

Me, I'm just proud of the fact that you've done it your way

And the weekend's here, started it right

Even if you only get part of it right

Live for today, plan for tomorrow

Party tonight, party tonight

Dying to meet your girlfriends that you said you might bring

If they're the ones that tell you that you do the right thing, ooh


[Pre-Chorus: Drake]

Houston girls love the way it goes down

Atlanta girls love the way it goes down

Vegas girls love the way it goes down


[Chorus: Drake]

But I gotta say, oh, baby, oh, baby, why is this so familiar?

Just met her, already feel like I know the real her

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time

We must've been here before, it's still fresh on my mind

You got that shit that somebody would look for, but won't find

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time


[Verse 2: Drake]

They keep telling me don't save you

If I ignore all that advice, then something isn't right

Then who will I complain to?

But the weekend's here, started it right

Even if I only get part of it right

Live for today, plan for tomorrow

Party tonight, party tonight

You got your guards up, I do too

There's things we might discover

'Cause you got a past and I do too

We're perfect for each other


[Pre-Chorus: Drake]

Houston girls love the way it goes down

Atlanta girls love the way it goes down

Vegas girls love the way it goes down


[Chorus: Drake]

But I gotta say, oh, baby, oh, baby, why is this so familiar?

Just met her, already feel like I know the real her

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time

We must've been here before, it's still fresh on my mind

You got that shit that somebody would look for, but won't find

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time (Woah)


[Verse 3: Lil Wayne]

'Cause to her, I'm just a rapper and soon, she'll have met another

So if tonight's an accident, tomorrow, we'll recover

And I know I'm not supposed to judge a book by its cover

I don't wan' be in the blind, but sometimes I Stevie Wonder

About her

And she with it if I'm with it, and I'm with it

I know what makes her smile, but I wan' know what makes her different

Or should I just be realistic? Lipstick on the glass

See, I know this ain't your first, but it's better than your last, Tunechi


[Chorus: Drake]

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time

We must've been here before, it's still fresh on my mind

You got that shit that somebody would look for, but won't find

You must've done this before, this can't be your first time (Woah)


[Verse 4: André 3000]

Shower her with dollar tips, shawty went and bought a whip

Guarantee the city remember your whole name, you throw that ho a scholarship

All of them ain't all equipped

And this saddens me, I see the pecking order

Quote-unquote bad bitches work the whole floor

Those that get laughed at sit off in a corner

Like a lab rat, nobody want her

Niggas that are married don't wanna go home

But we look up to them, they wish they were us

They want some new trim, we lust for some trust

Now the both of us are colorblind 'cause the other side looks greener

Which leaves your turf in a Boise state

Can't see a play or the team, 'cause

Everybody has an addiction, mine happens to be you

And those who say they don't, souls will later on say to them, "That ain't true"

All of them will have an opinion

But y'all know what y'all can do with them

But if you unsure, I'll take you on tour

To a place you can stick that in

Well, sitting here sad as hell

Listening to Adele, I feel you, baby

"Someone Like You," more like someone unlike you

Or something that's familiar maybe

And I can tell that she wants a baby

And I can yell, girl, that you're crazy

Oh, what the hell? Nope, can't be lazy

Please be careful, bitches got the rabies

“Listening to Adele, I feel you, baby “Someone Like You,” more like someone unlike you Or something that’s familiar maybe”
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Andre can relate to Adele’s songs on her album, 21, in which many songs have the vibe/theme of how you feel after a bad break-up.

He references one of her popular singles, “Someone Like You,” a ballad that was inspired by the ending of Adele’s 18-month relationship, and speaks of her coming to terms with it.

With that said, he expresses his anger by saying that the person he was with was not like him.

“’Cause to her, I’m just a rapper and soon, she’ll have met another”
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Here, Wayne recycles one of Drake’s lines from a previous collaboration of theirs, 2010’s “Miss Me.

“And I can tell that she wants a baby And I can yell, girl, that you’re crazy Oh, what the hell? Nope, can’t be lazy Please be careful, bitches got the rabies”
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A clever way of warning folks to watch out for gold diggers.

Three Stacks is being asked by this girl to be the father of her child. He is starting to be tempted by her, and says “what the hell”, but then realizes that’s a bad idea. Bitches are female dogs, and rabies are a disease that they have- so giving into this girl and going unprotected could end up giving him an STD. That’s what he’s really warning about.

“And the weekend’s here, started it right Even if you only get part of it right”
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Drake gives another little sly shoutout to his friend, XO artist The Weeknd, who is also on the album. The actual weekend is one of the most celebrated things in life. “Even if we only get part of it right” Is implying since he got the start right, he doesn’t get the end right. The song has been compared to the song “I Don’t Wanna” by Aaliyah.

“And I know I’m not supposed to judge a book by its cover I don’t wan’ be in the blind, but sometimes I Stevie Wonder”
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Wayne continues in the long tradition of Stevie Wonder “blind” metaphors, something he has also done before.

Ironically, this line also goes hand in hand with the song “Doing it Wrong” on Take Care. The song has a Stevie Wonder harmonica solo at the end and it is the track right before “The Real Her” on the album.

“Niggas that are married don’t wanna go home But we look up to them, they wish they were us”
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In these verses Andre alludes to the common trope, “We always want what we don’t have”. That is to say that married men seem to wish to have a single life again and be polygamous, however, on the other end of the spectrum those men that spend their time in strip clubs or with multiple women may wish for the opposite. In a following verse he mentions that both types of people end up color blind as they believe the “grass is greener” on the other side, but each neglects to be content in their own life as it is. In the end, both mindsets result in a lose-lose scenario (hence both become colorblind).

“She with it if I’m with it, and I’m with it”
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Lil Wayne references “Miss Me” by Drake again in these lyrics:

“And girl i’m fuckin’ serious, I’m with it if you with it”

“Houston girls love the way it goes down Atlanta girls love the way it goes down Vegas girls love the way it goes down”
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Drake has previously shown love for Houston, Atlanta and Vegas in “Houstatlantavegas.” Additionally, H-Town’s influence throughout Take Care is evident.

Why the allure for these three cities? Las Vegas has been a place rappers flock to as it’s known for its famous nightlife (as well as strippers). Atlanta is home of the Andre 3000, who is featured on this song. Also, Atlanta is a booming industry in hip hop. Lastly, Houston is home to ‘chopped and screwed music,’ which has a big influence on the South as well as Drake’s mentor Lil Wayne, who is also featured on the song. Each city holds a special place in the three rappers who are on “The Real Her.”

“They want some new trim, we lust for some trust”
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The famous ones with all the poonani just want a meaningful connection and the normal men with a meaningful relationship want the playboy lifestyle

“And those who say they don’t, souls will later on say to them, “That ain’t true” All of them will have an opinion But y’all know what y’all can do with them”
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Here, Andre 3000 is saying: to those people whom have worked through their problems, stemming from traumas, ego, etc…

Other people will only look at to detest them, because they cannot believe somebody else has actually worked on themselves, rather than being as low as them… and using distractions/addictions to get away from them.

And those ‘souls’ will only later on go on to study this person to look for the tiniest of flaw/ abnormality to blow it out of proportion and claim they were right and they’re just as low as them, with their ‘addictions’. to justify to them self and make themselves feel better or in an attempt to aggravate this person in the hope they will react and lower them self to their level/ standards.

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which is why everyone always has something to say (an opinion) regardless of the truth or facts because they are just lowly addicts looking for an escape, a distraction.

so to them he says you can shove your opinion up your a**.

p.s. this was my first time doing a citation I hope I did a good job :)

“Now the both of us are colorblind ’cause the other side looks greener Which leaves your turf in a Boise state Can’t see a play or the team, ’cause”
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The Boise State Broncos play on a blue field instead of a green field. You can’t see them because they also wear blue uniforms.

Going off on the “colorblind” line, saying “the other side looks greener” means it looks better for the future, but the Boise state line deals with the fact that they are sad. Being “blue” is synonymous for being sad; it’s hard to see things for what they really are when you are sad

Boise states turf is blue, so the “cuz” that leads into the next line could also be a reference to Crips, who refer to members of their gang as cuz or cousin, and whose main color is blue. A little more color wordplay.

“They keep telling me don’t save you”
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As The Mighty D.R.E. enlightened us, you can’t make a ho a housewife. So Drake’s friends are trying to convince him not to buy this stripper out of her job to be with him.