[Verse 1: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

In a system based on inequality, where do you draw the line?

Between fighting to stop oppression and perpetuating the same crime

When you start to define anyone simply based upon their gender

Then you're guilty of the crime and an equally wrong offender

It makes life easy to force people into simple categories

You're a man, you're a woman, isn't that the same old story?

And as a man, society has mapped out exactly what you must do

Just as society has told all women what their roles are too

Too many times we think fighting sexism means creating a battlefield

With men on one side and women on the other and both sides ready to kill

But striving to find creative solutions to a problem that exists

Doesn't have to mean that it's her side against his

[Chorus: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that I'm the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that you're the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that we're the problem?

[Post-Chorus: Dave Trenga]

Isolation or solution to the problem

[Verse 2: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

A person's ability to fight sexism shouldn't be based on gender

Just because someone is a man doesn't mean he's a sexist oppressor

Or that he's blind to the problems that create gender inequality

And that he's blind to the problems that create gender inequality

And that he's not willing to do his part to help change society

Just as some women don't know exactly how to take a stand against gender roles

Simply because they're a woman doesn't mean they have all the knowledge and the tools

To break down the barriers of oppression and inequality that exists

Because it's the barriers between women and men that allow sexism to persist

[Chorus: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that I'm the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that you're the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that we're the problem?

[Post-Chorus: Dave Trenga]

Isolation or solution to the problem

[Verse 3: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

If you don't strive to stop oppression, then you're part of the problem

Whether you're a man or a woman, it'll take us all to fucking stop them

Men and women both suffer under the heavy hand of oppression

Both living gender roles only lead to this suppression

Of our natural ability to communicate and live equally with each other

As a friend or a lover, as a sister or a brother

If our only goal in fighting sexism is to try and place blame

Then, unfortunately, we're all guilty of playing the same games

But if in unity, women and men come together and take a stand

Then, with our united goal, we could bring sexism to an end

[Chorus: Dave Trenga & Adrienne Droogas]

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that I'm the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that you're the problem?

Can't you see, won't you see? Why don't you see that we're the problem?

[Post-Chorus: Dave Trenga]

Isolation or solution to the problem